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cross dresser wearing tights and short pink dress

Switching from hold ups to black tights for the winter

Abbie It’s Cassie here, and I’m excited to share a little wardrobe update that’s been making me feel fabulous lately. I’ve always been a huge fan of your Ballerina hold-ups – their elegance and the way they add a touch of grace to my outfit are irresistible. But recently, I’ve been craving something different, something a bit more striking and sophisticated. So, I switched to a pair of your black ballerina tights. Paired with my favourite short pink dress, this new look has me feeling like an entirely new Cassie, blending that classic elegance with a bit of edge! The...

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Cross dresser wearing holdups

Crossdresser caught by landlady wearing holdups

In this post we advise a cross-dresser who got caught by his landlady wearing hold-ups

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Cross dresser wearing stockings and suspenders

A crossdresser who want to wear stockings & suspenders to the office

Abbie I am a cross-dresser who loves wearing stockings and suspenders at home. It brings me a lot of comfort and joy, but lately, I want to wear them to work—under my trousers obviously, as they would not be visible. None of my colleagues know that I cross-dress, and I work in a standard office environment. Do you think this is a good idea, or is it too much of a risk? Shop Stockings Answer Thank you for your thoughtful question and for trusting me with such a personal topic. Cross-dressing is a beautiful form of self-expression, and I understand...

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Cross dresser wearing hold-ups

my girlfriend joked I looked better in hold ups than she did

In this post - A cross-dressers girlfriend joked he looked better in hold-ups than she did.

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