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A MAN WEARING BLACK SHEER HOLD-UPS
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My Partner Thinks He Looked Better in My Hold-Ups Than I Did

Dear Abbie, This is one of those things that’s funny until it isn’t. We were getting ready for a night...

WOMAN WEARING DAY TO DAY HOLD-UPS
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Why Hold-Ups Ladder for Cross Dressers — And How to Make Them Last
Practical advice for cross dressers on why hold-ups ladder and how to prevent it, with expert tips on dressing technique, care, and choosing the right style.
woman wearing a lingerie set designed to be quietly confident
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Why Do I Feel Awkward Buying Lingerie? (You’re Not Alone)

Abbie I like lingerie. I like looking at it, I like the idea of wearing it… but when I actually...

Woman wearing a pair of black stockings from DARK SECRET
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Found  Stockings  in  His  Drawer — What  Do  They  Really  Mean?

Abbie I found a pair of stockings buried in my husband’s drawer that don’t belong to me. I don’t wear...

woman wearing a beige lingerie set
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Can  Lingerie  That’s  Made  to  Disappear  Still  Make  You  Feel  Confident?

Beige lingerie has a reputation. Practical. Sensible. Invisible.Useful — but never provocative. And confidence, so everyone says, needs to be...

A cross dresser wearing hold-ups
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Men Wearing Hold-Up Stockings: A Date-Night Investigation

There’s a moment — usually late in the evening — when clothing stops being practical and starts being intentional. That’s...

Woman wearing a BLACK HALF CORSET
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Black Half Corset Review — Worn Out, Not for the Bedroom

I didn’t expect to like this. Half corsets aren’t usually my thing. Lace thongs even less so. I’ve always been...

Woman wearing a pair of PLUS SIZE hold ups
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Plus Size Hold-Ups That Actually Stay Up

There’s a particular moment when you pull on hold-ups that you don’t get with tights. It’s slower.More deliberate.Fabric moving up...