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Is it weird to want my boyfriend to wear panties?

Abbie “Is it weird to want my boyfriend to wear panties?Part of me finds the idea really attractive, but I...

WOMAN WEARING HOLDUPS WITH A SUSPENDER BELT
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Can  You  Wear  Hold‑Ups  With  a  Suspender  Belt?

Yes — you can wear hold‑ups with a suspender belt. But you don’t need to. Hold‑ups are designed to stay...

woman wearing a pair of PLUS SIZE STATEMENT HOLDUPS
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Can  Plus  Size  Women  Wear  Statement  Hold‑Ups?

I’ve seen the Statement Hold‑Ups on your site. I love them. But I’m plus size, and I keep thinking they’ll...

Woman wearing date night hold-ups
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He Bought Me Stockings — But I Wear Hold-Ups. What Now?

Abbie He surprised me with a pair of black stockings. They’re beautiful. Lace tops. Proper quality. The problem? I don’t...

woman wearing a Lingerie Short
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Do You Need Matching Lingerie? (Or Do We Just Think We Do?)

I used to think it mattered. Matching lingerie sets.Same lace. Same tone. Same everything. Like there was a right way...

woman wearing a pair of sheer  black holdups
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Do Men Notice Hold-Ups? Why They Get More Attention Than You Think

The Question It’s a fair question.Not dramatic. Not overthought.Just… honest. 👉 Do men actually notice hold-ups — or are they...

woman wearing a pair of sheer holdups
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Why Do Men Find Stockings So Sexy? Hold-Ups Explained

The Inherited Myth For decades, we’ve been handed the same idea: Stockings are the sexy ones. Straps. Suspenders. Structure.A whole...

woman wearing a pair of sheer holdups
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Why Do Women Wear Hold-Ups?

Most days as my 100s of regular readers know, I’m in jeans and trainers. Hair half-done. Moving quickly. Thinking about...