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Woman dressed as a DOMANATRIX
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My  Partner  Wants  to  Explore  a  Dominance  Fantasy — What Should I Do?

My New Boyfriend Wants Me to Dress as a Dominatrix and Whip Him Abbie I’ve recently started seeing someone new, and things are going really well. He’s kind, attentive, and we have...

Man wearing atockings and suspenders
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My  Husband  Wears  Stockings – Is  That  Normal?

Dear Abbie, Recently my husband told me — a bit nervous but very honest — that he likes wearing stockings.He’s...

Woman wearing black stockings and suspenders
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Do  People  Notice  When  You  Wear  Stockings  in  Public?

Abbie,  I love how stockings look … but I’m terrified everyone will notice if I wear them outside the bedroom.Do...

Woman wearing stockings and suspenders
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Take control with Stockings and Suspenders

Dear Abbie, I’m not trying to be sweet or seductive. I’ve done the matching‑set thing before — the lace, the...

Woman wearing a black and red babydoll with a BLINDFOLD
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What Really Happens When You Use a Blindfold in the Bedroom

It started as one of those easy, late-Friday conversations that drift a little closer than you expect. We were talking...

Woman wearing a pair of grey hold ups
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Why  Grey Hold‑Ups  Are  Perfect  for  Winter

There’s always a moment in winter when black begins to feel like armour.Reliable, yes — but suddenly heavy, final, unyielding.White...

a man wearing black stockings with a red suspender belt
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Why  Men  Wear  Stockings

When last night’s Ask Abbie letter went live — a wife wondering what to make of her husband’s stockings — I...

WOMAN WEARING SHEER BLACK HOLDUPS FROM DARK SECRET
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Why  I  Choose  Hold‑Ups  Over Stockings

The Truth Behind the Choice I don’t avoid stockings because I don’t understand them.I avoid them because I understand myself....