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woman wearing a black mesh lingerie set
3 min read
Is This Mesh Lingerie Set Worth It? Honest Review

Abbie, I can’t stop looking at the Pasomela set. It looks perfect on the model.The mesh. The structure. Those sharp...

Woman dressed as a DOMANATRIX
4 min read
My  Partner  Wants  to  Explore  a  Dominance  Fantasy — What Should I Do?

My New Boyfriend Wants Me to Dress as a Dominatrix and Whip Him Abbie I’ve recently started seeing someone new, and things are going really well. He’s kind, attentive, and we have...

Man wearing atockings and suspenders
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My  Husband  Wears  Stockings – Is  That  Normal?

Dear Abbie, Recently my husband told me — a bit nervous but very honest — that he likes wearing stockings.He’s...

Woman wearing black stockings and suspenders
4 min read
Do  People  Notice  When  You  Wear  Stockings  in  Public?

Abbie,  I love how stockings look … but I’m terrified everyone will notice if I wear them outside the bedroom.Do...

woman wearing white bridal hold-ups
4 min read
White  Hold‑Ups:  Not  Just  for  Weddings

White hold‑ups are searched for now. February. Dress fittings. Brides standing under boutique lighting realising that opaque tights will flatten...

woman wearing a polka dot lingerie set
3 min read
Is Polka Dot Lingerie Too Cute?

I don’t automatically trust polka dots. They can go wrong quickly. On lingerie, especially, they risk looking younger than you...

Woman wearing a pair of seamed hold-ups
2 min read
Are Seamed Hold-Ups Really Back?

I live in rural Somerset. A sleepy town. And I haven’t seen a single woman wearing seamed hold-ups. Not in...

Woman wearing Stockings and Suspenders
4 min read
Why do women wear Stockings and Suspenders

A confession from the kitchen-table desk. People think the answer is obvious. Sex.Seduction.The simple idea of being looked at. But...