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WOMAN WEARING DAY TO DAY HOLD-UPS

Why Hold-Ups Ladder for Cross Dressers — And How to Make Them Last

Practical advice for cross dressers on why hold-ups ladder and how to prevent it, with expert tips on dressing technique, care, and choosing the right...

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woman wearing a lingerie set designed to be quietly confident

Why Do I Feel Awkward Buying Lingerie? (You’re Not Alone)

Abbie I like lingerie. I like looking at it, I like the idea of wearing it… but when I actually go to buy it, I...

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Woman wearing a pair of black stockings from DARK SECRET

Found  Stockings  in  His  Drawer — What  Do  They  Really  Mean?

Abbie I found a pair of stockings buried in my husband’s drawer that don’t belong to me. I don’t wear stockings. If they’d been new...

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woman wearing black hold-ups for day to day wear

Can  Hold‑Ups  Be  Everyday  Sexy?

Dear Abbie, I love the idea of hold‑ups — there’s something quietly defiant about them — but every pair I see looks designed for candlelight...

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How to Attach Stockings to Suspenders Properly

Abbie I love the look of stockings and suspenders, but I never feel confident attaching them. I worry I’m doing it wrong, they’ll twist, or...

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Woman wearing black stockings and suspenders

I Found My Husband Wearing My Stockings

Abbie I came home earlier than expected one evening and found my husband in the bedroom. He wasn’t joking or trying to shock me. He...

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woman wearing black sheer hold-ups

He Won’t Have Sex Unless I Wear Stockings

Abbie I used to wear stockings fairly often — not every day, but enough that they felt like part of me. I didn’t decide to...

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woman wearing a black ROZA THONG

Caught My Husband Wearing Women’s Thongs

Dear Abbie, I’ve been married to my husband for ten years. Last month, I caught him wearing my thongs It happened completely by accident. After...

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woman wearing a pair of sheer holdups

Do Hold-Ups Really Stay Up?

This question doesn’t come from curiosity.It comes from experience. Most women who ask “do hold-ups really stay up?” are remembering a slow slide down the thigh,...

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woman wearing patterned black tights from Ballerina

Are Patterned Tights Office Appropriate?

This is a question many women quietly ask while getting dressed for work: are patterned tights actually professional — or am I pushing it? Patterned...

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woman wearing holdups under her trousers at work

Can I wear hold-ups under trousers?

This question comes up more often than people admit. Hold-ups are still talked about as something “dressy” or reserved for certain outfits, so wearing them...

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A cross dresser wearing hold-ups

A Cross-Dresser’s Love of Wearing Hosiery

Abbie I’m a cross-dresser, and I love wearing hosiery.Stockings and hold-ups make me feel calm, comfortable, and more like myself. I’ve bought a few pairs...

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