Ask Abbie - Agony aunt.

man wearing a pair of stockings

I Love Seeing My Husband in Stockings — Is That Normal?

Dear Abbie, This might sound unusual, but I love seeing my husband in stockings. It started as a bit of fun, but I’ve realised I...

Abbie Quinn
woman wearing a pair of stockings

I’m Dating Again After Divorce — Can I Still Wear Stockings?

Dear Abbie I’m 54 and recently started seeing someone new after a divorce. It’s been years since I’ve even thought about stockings, but my new...

Abbie Quinn
woman wearing a plus size babydoll

Plus Size Lingerie That Actually Feels Flattering

Hi Abbie, I’m a size 18 and honestly getting fed up with buying plus size lingerie online that looks beautiful on the model but makes...

Abbie Quinn
woman wearing a matching lace lingerie set

Is It Normal for Men to Wear Lace Lingerie?

I wear lace lingerie myself, including stockings, and I often wear it under my clothes during the day. I’m a man, and I like the...

Abbie Quinn
woman wearing a pair of sheer holdups

Are Hold-Ups Comfortable for All-Day Wear?

Dear Abbie, I have a wedding and reception coming up and I’ve seen a pair of your sheer hold-ups which would really make my legs...

Abbie Quinn
woman wearing a pair of seamed stockings

Do men notice Seamed Stockings?

Abbie, I recently bought a pair of your stockings on a bit of a whim. They have a back seam running down the leg and...

Abbie Quinn
woman wearing a YESX PLUS SIZE Strappy Body

What Lingerie Should I Buy My Wife for Our Anniversary?

A reader recently emailed asking for some advice. He and his wife had a wedding anniversary coming up and he wanted to surprise her with...

Abbie Quinn
WOMAN WEARING SHEER BLACK HOLDUPS FROM DARK SECRET

Why Don’t My Hold-Ups Actually Hold Up?

Abbie We seem to have trouble sourcing hold ups that actually hold up. Sarah is 5’7” with slim legs that measure 52cm at the top...

Abbie Quinn
woman wearing a matching bra and thong

Is it weird to want my boyfriend to wear panties?

Abbie “Is it weird to want my boyfriend to wear panties?Part of me finds the idea really attractive, but I don’t know what that says...

Abbie Quinn
WOMAN WEARING HOLDUPS WITH A SUSPENDER BELT

Can  You  Wear  Hold‑Ups  With  a  Suspender  Belt?

Yes — you can wear hold‑ups with a suspender belt. But you don’t need to. Hold‑ups are designed to stay up on their own using...

Abbie Quinn
woman wearing a pair of PLUS SIZE STATEMENT HOLDUPS

Can  Plus  Size  Women  Wear  Statement  Hold‑Ups?

I’ve seen the Statement Hold‑Ups on your site. I love them. But I’m plus size, and I keep thinking they’ll look exaggerated — like they’ll...

Abbie Quinn
Woman wearing date night hold-ups

He Bought Me Stockings — But I Wear Hold-Ups. What Now?

Abbie He surprised me with a pair of black stockings. They’re beautiful. Lace tops. Proper quality. The problem? I don’t wear stockings. I wear hold-ups....

Abbie Quinn
1 2 3 4