The do's and don'ts of dating - expert tips

Online dating has become increasingly popular, and it's easy to see why. It offers a convenient way to meet new people and potentially find a romantic partner. However, there are some dos and don'ts to observe about online dating.

Dos

• Be honest in your profile: Honesty is always the best policy. Be truthful about your interests, hobbies, and what you from a relationship. That will help you attract the right people and avoid wasting time on incompatible matches.
• Choose your profile photo wisely. Your profile picture is the first thing people will see, so make sure it's a decent representation of you. Choose a picture that's clear, recent, and shows your personality.- Keep an open mind: 
• Don't limit yourself to a specific type of person. Be open to meeting new people and experiencing new things. You never know who you might connect with.

Don'ts

• Don't reveal too much personal information. Protect your privacy by not sharing sensitive information such as your phone number, home address, or financial details.
• Don't be too picky. While you need standards, don't be too picky about online dating. Give people a chance, and don't dismiss them based on superficial criteria such as height or job title.
• Don't rush into meeting in person. Take your time to get to know someone before meeting in person. That will help you avoid potential safety risks and ensure that you're meeting someone who is a good match for you.

The first date is always nerve-wracking, but it's also exciting. Here are some dos and don'ts to ensure that it is a success.

Dos

• Be punctual. Arrive on time or even a few minutes early. That shows that you value the other person's time and are excited to meet them.- Dress appropriately.
• Do for your own safety, meet in a public place and let a friend know where you are going.
• Dress in a way that makes you feel confident and comfortable, but also consider the location and activity of the date. If you're going to a fancy restaurant, wear something dressy. If you're going for a hike, wear something comfortable and practical.
• Listen actively. Show your date that you're interested in what the person has to say by actively listening and asking questions. That will help you get to know them better and build a connection.

Don'ts

• Don't talk about your ex. Avoid talking about your past relationships on the first date. That can make your date uncomfortable and gives them the impression that you're not over your ex.
• Don't be on your phone. Switch it off and away and give your date your full attention. Being on your phone during a date is rude and gives the impression that you're not interested.
• Don't pressure your date into doing something they're not comfortable with. Respect their boundaries and take things at a comfortable for both of you.

Communication is vital in any relationship, especially in the early stages of dating. Here are some dos and don'ts to consider when it comes to communication.

Dos

• Be clear and direct. Don't beat around the bush or expect your date to read your mind. Be clear and precise in your communication to avoid misunderstandings.
• Express your feelings. If you're enjoying your time with your date, let them know. Expressing your feelings can help build connections and make your date feel appreciated.
• Listen actively. Communication is a two-way street, so make sure you are actively listening to your date. That will help you understand your date's perspective and build a deeper connection.

Don'ts

• Don't play games. Avoid playing games or using manipulative tactics to try and get what you want. That is a sure fire way to ruin any chance of building a genuine connection.
• Don't avoid conflict. Conflict is inevitable in any relationship, but to address it healthily. Avoiding conflict can lead to resentment and the breakdown of the relationship.-
• Don't over-communicate. While you need to communicate effectively, it's also important not to overdo it. Bombarding your date with texts and messages can show you as needy and desperate.

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Physical intimacy is an essential part of any romantic relationship, but it's vital to approach it slowly, especially in the early stages of dating. Here are some dos and don'ts to take on board physical intimacy.

Dos

• Communicate your boundaries. Be clear about boundaries and what you're comfortable with. That will help you avoid uncomfortable situations and ensure you are both on the same page.
• Take it slow. Don't rush into physical intimacy. Take your time to build a connection and ensure you are both ready.-
• Practice safe sex. If you decide to have sex, then practice safe sex to protect yourself and your partner from sexually transmitted infections and any unwanted pregnancies.

Don'ts

• Don't assume consent. Consent is crucial when it comes to physical intimacy. Don't assume your date is comfortable with something just because he is on a date with you.- 
• Don't pressure your date. Pressuring your date into physical intimacy is not only disrespectful, but it's also illegal. Respect boundaries and take things at a comfortable pace for both of you.
• Don't ignore red flags. If your date exhibits behaviour that makes you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, don't ignore it. Trust your instincts and look after your safety.

Rejection is a part of dating, and while it can be painful, you need to know how to handle it healthily. Here are some dos and don'ts when dealing with rejection.

Dos

• Take time to process your emotions. It's okay to feel sad or disappointed after being rejected. Take some time to process your thoughts and practice self-care.

• Keep things in perspective. Rejection is not a reflection of your worth as a person. Keep things in perspective, and remember the saying there are plenty more fish in the sea.

• Stay positive. Don't let rejection get you down. Stay positive and keep a hopeful outlook. That will help you attract positive energy and attract a new romantic partner. 

   

Don'ts

• Don't take it personally. Rejection is not a personal attack on you. Avoid taking it personally and view it as an opportunity to grow and learn.- Don't dwell on it: While you need to process your emotions, dwelling on rejection can be unhealthy. Don't let it consume you or affect your self-esteem.
• Don't try to change their mind. Respecting someone's decision is respectful. Don't try to change their mind or convince them to give you another chance if they've already rejected you.

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