My new boyfriend told me he has a fetish to bodystockings

Abbie, I have been with my new man for a couple of months, last night he confessed he has a fetish for bodystockings, I stumbled across your site and started looking at your range, but I wanted to get your take on it as it came as a bit of a surprise to be honest.

Hi thank you for your question.

Discovering that your partner has a fetish can be surprising, and it’s natural to feel a mix of curiosity, confusion, and even concern. If your man has a bodystockings fetish, you might be wondering what this means for your new relationship and how to navigate this aspect of his sexuality. Here’s a guide to help you understand, communicate, and potentially embrace his bodystockings fetish in a healthy and supportive way.

A fetish is a form of sexual attraction to specific objects, materials, or scenarios that are not traditionally viewed as inherently sexual. A bodystockings fetish involves a sexual fascination with bodystockings, which are as you know browsing my site, form-fitting garments covering the torso, often extending to the legs and arms. This fetish can be about the appearance, texture, or the way the bodystocking accentuates the body.

1. Open Communication
   • Start with an open and non-judgmental conversation. Ask your partner about his fetish to understand what specifically excites him and why. This helps demystify the fetish and brings clarity.
2. Educate Yourself
   • Learn more about bodystocking fetishes. Understanding the psychology and dynamics of fetishes can help you feel more comfortable and less intimidated.
3. Acknowledge Your Feelings
   • It’s important to acknowledge your feelings. It’s okay to feel unsure or uncomfortable. Expressing your emotions to your partner can foster mutual understanding and respect.

1. Set Boundaries
   • Discuss and establish clear boundaries. What are you comfortable with, and what are your limits? It’s essential that both partners feel respected and heard.
2. Gradual Exploration
   • If you’re open to it, consider gradually exploring the fetish together. Start with something simple, like wearing bodystockings in a non-sexual context to see how it feels.
3. Incorporate It Playfully
   • Find ways to incorporate bodystockings into your intimate life in a way that feels playful and exciting for both of you. This could be through role-playing or using it as a special surprise.

1. Is It a Deal-Breaker?
   • Determine if this fetish to bodystockings is something you can accept. For some, a partner’s fetish may be a deal-breaker, and that’s okay. Understanding your boundaries is crucial.
2. Fetish vs. Obsession
   • Ensure that the fetish doesn’t overshadow your entire sexual relationship. A healthy fetish should enhance your intimacy, not dominate it. If it becomes obsessive, seeking professional guidance might be helpful.
3. Seeking Support
   • If you’re struggling to accept or understand the fetish, consider seeking support from a therapist or counsellor. They can provide a safe space for both partners to explore and understand these dynamics.

1. Embrace Openness
   • Embrace the diversity in sexual preferences. Every individual has unique desires, and being open to exploring them can enrich your relationship.
2. Strengthening Your Bond
   • Sharing and understanding each other’s fantasies can strengthen your bond. It builds trust and intimacy, making your relationship more resilient and fulfilling.
3. Enjoy the Journey
   • Sexual exploration is a journey. Enjoy discovering new aspects of your partner and yourself. It’s an opportunity to grow together and deepen your connection.

Discovering that your man has a bodystockings fetish might initially seem daunting, but it can also be an opportunity for growth and deeper intimacy in your relationship. By communicating openly, setting boundaries, and exploring together, you can navigate this aspect of your partner’s sexuality in a way that is respectful and enjoyable for both of you. Embracing his fetish can not only enhance your sexual life but also strengthen your overall bond, fostering a relationship built on trust, understanding, and mutual respect.