A cross dressers love of wearing stockings and suspenders

Ask Abbie, Lingerie's agony aunt, who catches up with Claire and shares her story about her love for wearing stockings and suspenders.

Claire’s love for fashion began at an early age. She was always drawn to the elegance and sensuality of feminine clothing, particularly lingerie. The way stockings and suspenders can transform an outfit fascinated her. Over time, she discovered that wearing these pieces wasn’t just about how they looked—it was about how they made her feel.

“I remember the first time I tried on stockings and suspenders—it was a powerful feeling,” Claire recalls. “There was something so freeing about wearing something I truly loved. I felt more confident, more in tune with myself.”

For Claire, cross-dressing is a way to explore her identity and express her femininity. Stockings and suspenders became her go-to pieces, not just because of their timeless elegance, but because they symbolize the freedom to embrace every side of herself.

So, why does Claire love stockings and suspenders so much?

1. The Feeling of Elegance : “There’s nothing quite like the sensation of slipping on a pair of stockings,” Claire says. “The smooth fabric against your skin, paired with the suspenders, feels elegant and empowering.”
2. Timeless and Versatile : Stockings and suspenders are classic lingerie pieces that never go out of style. Claire loves how versatile they are—whether wearing them with a pencil skirt for a polished, professional look or pairing them with a dress for a more glamorous night out.
3. Confidence Boost : For Claire, wearing stockings and suspenders is more than just a fashion statement; it’s a confidence booster. “When I wear stockings, I feel in control. I love how they hug my legs and add an extra layer of sophistication.”

Despite the confidence Claire feels in her style, she understands that cross-dressing can come with its challenges. Many people still don’t fully understand or accept the idea of someone dressing outside traditional gender norms. For Claire, sharing her story is a way to change perceptions and help others see the beauty and empowerment that cross-dressing can bring.

“Cross-dressing isn’t about trying to be someone else,” she explains. “For me, it’s about exploring different parts of who I am. Wearing stockings and suspenders helps me feel more connected to my feminine side, and there’s nothing wrong with that.”

Claire believes that fashion should be fun and inclusive. “We all deserve to wear what makes us feel good, regardless of gender,” she says. “Cross-dressing is just one way to play with style and self-expression.”

Claire has recently decided to take her passion for cross-dressing a step further by sharing her story and photos online. She hopes that by being open about her experience, she can encourage others who may be hesitant to explore their own style and identity.

“When I first started cross-dressing, I didn’t see many people like me sharing their stories,” Claire explains. “That’s why I want to put myself out there—not only to highlight the beauty of cross-dressing but to show others that it’s okay to be yourself.”

She’s particularly excited about sharing photos of her favourite lingerie looks. From sheer stockings with lace tops to bold suspender belts paired with fitted dresses, Claire’s wardrobe is filled with elegant pieces that highlight her femininity.

For anyone thinking about exploring cross-dressing or stepping outside traditional gender norms, Claire has one key piece of advice:  be true to yourself .

“It can be intimidating at first, but it’s so worth it,” Claire says. “Start by experimenting with pieces that make you feel confident and comfortable. For me, it was stockings and suspenders, but for someone else, it could be a dress, heels, or something else entirely. The most important thing is to embrace what makes you feel amazing.”

Claire emphasizes that cross-dressing is a personal journey, and everyone’s path will look different. “It’s not about fitting into a particular box. It’s about self-expression, feeling good in your own skin, and celebrating who you are.”

Claire’s story is one of self-acceptance, confidence, and fashion as a form of personal empowerment. By sharing her love for stockings, suspenders, and cross-dressing, she hopes to break down barriers and inspire others to embrace their unique styles without fear of judgment.

Claire is rightly proud to be a cross-dresser and proud of the person she has become,” As Claire says. “Fashion is for everyone, and that’s something I’ll always celebrate.”
Whether you’re new to cross-dressing or a longtime enthusiast, Claire’s journey reminds us all that fashion is a powerful tool for self-expression—and everyone deserves to feel confident and beautiful in their own way.

Thank you Claire for sharing your story, and letting me publish your photos of you looking stunning in stockings and suspenders. - All the best, Abbie