Ask Abbie - Agony aunt.

In your lovely white hold-ups, and they look lovely with my white dress. Thank you Abbie In a world that often imposes rigid norms and expectations, self-discovery and acceptance can be a challenging yet profoundly liberating experience. For Cassie, expressing her true self involves embracing aspects of identity that society may not always understand or accept. One such expression is through fashion—specifically, the simple yet powerful choice to wear white hold-ups. Shop White Hold-ups The Power of Fashion in Gender Expression Fashion has always been more than just clothing; it is a language, a form of communication transcending words. For...

Abbie I am a 40-year-old woman having my first date in several years, he is taking me to a nice restaurant, and I wanted to buy a little dress to wear, what do you suggest, please? - something elegant, a little sexy, but not slutty, and I do not want to give him the wrong idea. Can you think of anything that would be appropriate? This dress ticks the boxes It is good to hear you are getting ready for a date! Choosing lingerie for such an occasion can be fun and tricky, especially when you want to convey elegance...

Abbie,I love the hold-up stockings I purchased from your site and would love to have left you a google review, as you asked, but I just wanted to give you the only reason I did not do so. I have always had a thing for the elegance and comfort of women's stockings. While it is a part of my life I cherish, I have often kept it under wraps, especially in public forums. Writing a Google review under my name felt too revealing, and I don't want the backlash from uneducated people who stalk the internet.  But thank you for...

Abbie From your site, I just ordered some sexy stockings and suspenders, which I am going to love wearing.  However, my boyfriend said he'd love to take photos of me wearing them. While I trust him, I can't shake the fear that he might show these photos to his mates. I'm unsure if I should let him take the pictures. What should I do? Shop Stockings & Suspenders Answer to being photographed wearing Stockings Thank you for buying some sexy stockings from me, as you said, I am sure you will love wearing them. It is good that you are thinking...