Ask Abbie - Agony aunt.

Abbie helps a lady whose boyfriend wants her to send intimate pictures of herself. The last couple of months, I have been seeing a new man. I brought some sexy Ballerina holdups from your site and teased him over a few text messages. In response, he sent me intimate photos of himself and asked me to send him a few pictures of me wearing my Ballerina holdups in return. I came to ask you as I feel uncomfortable with this idea, but I did start it by leading him on. (I am 45 when he is 39)  One of the few...

AbbieSince having children a few years ago, my weight has shot up a few dress sizes than when I first married my husband.He goes to great lengths to say he still cherishes my body, but I am ashamed to say I struggle to believe him. I hate being naked and shy away from his touch at times. What can I do to resolve this?The main problem here is not your weight but your loss of confidence. A supermodel without self-confidence can feel unattractive. I know many plus-size women who ooze out sex appeal as they never doubt their right to...

Abbie I have been dating a lovely man for a couple of months.  He brought me some Ballerina stockings from your site and continually asked me to put them on.  I am uncomfortable with this idea and think it's a bit sexist, to be honest.  I am pushing 50, and for someone who has never worn stockings, I am too old to wear them now. Do I have a point? Answer As I say to all females, it is your right to wear whatever clothing and lingerie you choose. Though on saying that, it does not mean your new partner...

Abbie Lingerie agony aunt advises a lady whose husband expects her to wear stockings every time in the bedroom,