Ask Abbie - Agony aunt.

Abbie - Help I am a man with a violent girlfriend suffering domestic violence. To the outside world, my girlfriend of four years is quite the catch, stunning looks, a size ten body and a great personality. To top it off, she knows what she is doing in bed! But behind closed doors, she portrays another side where she is violent towards me, that I have to cover my bruises. The trigger is mainly drinking, though they can also come randomly, when she is under pressure or having a bad day. When she has calmed down, she is always apologetic...

Dear Abbie, I am a man wearing ladie's knickers As you know, I am a regular customer of Quinn Lingerie, buying your lovely ladie's knickers.  You may have assumed it was for my girlfriend or wife, but it was for me. I have an obsession being a man wearing ladie's knickers under my trousers. I love the feeling of the material rubbing on my skin. I have split from my girlfriend of three years. At first, I stuck to wearing my underwear when we first started dating, but when I finally plucked up the courage and confessed my obsession, she was ok with...

Abbie helps a lady whose boyfriend wants her to send intimate pictures of herself. The last couple of months, I have been seeing a new man. I brought some sexy Ballerina holdups from your site and teased him over a few text messages. In response, he sent me intimate photos of himself and asked me to send him a few pictures of me wearing my Ballerina holdups in return. I came to ask you as I feel uncomfortable with this idea, but I did start it by leading him on. (I am 45 when he is 39)  One of the few...

AbbieSince having children a few years ago, my weight has shot up a few dress sizes than when I first married my husband.He goes to great lengths to say he still cherishes my body, but I am ashamed to say I struggle to believe him. I hate being naked and shy away from his touch at times. What can I do to resolve this?The main problem here is not your weight but your loss of confidence. A supermodel without self-confidence can feel unattractive. I know many plus-size women who ooze out sex appeal as they never doubt their right to...