My boyfriend wants me to send intimate pictures of my self wearing Ballerina Holdups.

Abbie helps a lady whose boyfriend wants her to send intimate pictures of herself.

The last couple of months, I have been seeing a new man. I brought some sexy Ballerina holdups from your site and teased him over a few text messages.

In response, he sent me intimate photos of himself and asked me to send him a few pictures of me wearing my Ballerina holdups in return.

I came to ask you as I feel uncomfortable with this idea, but I did start it by leading him on.

(I am 45 when he is 39) 

One of the few advantages of growing older is that you are wiser and more experienced. You know your comfort zone, and alarm bells are ringing of what your boyfriend has asked you to do.

Therefore I share your caution in such a short relationship though much you like him. It is impossible to have 100% trust as yet.

How do you know he wont show his mates down the pub or upload them to the internet for the world to have a good gawp.

I would explain your concerns to your partner. If he feels the same way as you, he will take it on the chin!

And if you’re worried about leading him on, why not do what you brought the Ballerina Stockings for - Slip them on when he is next at yours?

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Abbie is the agony aunt for those trying to navigate the world of lingerie. As an online lingerie owner, I help my customers with everything from relationship problems to finding the sexy nightwear that will excite your partner to tips and tricks on making lingerie more comfortable. 

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