How to Stop Hold-Ups Rolling Down

Dear Abbie,

I love wearing hold-ups, but I’ve noticed that some pairs never seem to stay in place. They start off fine, then roll at the top or slowly slip during the day — which makes me feel self-conscious and constantly on edge.

I’m not sure if it’s the fit, the style, or just hold-ups in general. I see some pairs with beautiful detailing and wide lace tops, and others that feel much plainer — but I don’t really know what makes the difference.

How do I choose hold-ups that actually stay up?

This is a really good question — because on the surface, most hold-ups look similar. But in reality, how a hold-up is made matters far more than most people realise.

When a hold-up rolls down, it’s rarely about your legs. It’s usually about construction.

Well-designed sheer hold-ups share a few key features:

• Wider top bands that sit flat instead of curling

• Strong, high-quality silicone grip that keeps its hold throughout the day

• Structured lace or detailed tops that aren’t just decorative, but supportive

That kind of detailing — like you see on more refined styles such as Dark Secrets — isn’t just about looks. It helps the hold-up distribute tension evenly, which reduces rolling and slipping.

Plainer designs often lack that structure, which is why they can feel fine at first and then gradually lose grip.

This surprises a lot of people, but more detailed hold-ups often perform better than basic ones.

A properly constructed lace top:

• lies flatter against the thigh

• stretches evenly instead of pulling in one place

• keeps the silicone in full contact with the skin

That combination is what makes the difference between hold-ups you forget you’re wearing — and ones you’re constantly adjusting.

Choosing the right size is important (and sizing up can help if you’re between sizes), but even a perfect fit won’t fix a poorly made hold-up.

If you’ve ever wondered why one pair feels effortless and another feels stressful, this is why.

If you want hold-ups that stay put, stop thinking only about size — and start looking at design and quality.

Investing in well-made sheer hold-ups with proper structure and detailing isn’t about being fancy. It’s about comfort, confidence, and not spending your day worrying about your hosiery.

If you’re looking for hold-ups that are designed to stay up — not just look good in the packet — start with quality sheer hold-ups that combine strong silicone grip with beautifully structured tops.

Once you’ve worn a pair like that, the difference is impossible to ignore.