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Woman wearing date night hold-ups

He Bought Me Stockings — But I Wear Hold-Ups. What Now?

Abbie He surprised me with a pair of black stockings. They’re beautiful. Lace tops. Proper quality. The problem? I don’t wear stockings. I wear hold-ups....

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woman wearing a black mesh lingerie set

Is This Mesh Lingerie Set Worth It? Honest Review

Abbie, I can’t stop looking at the Pasomela set. It looks perfect on the model.The mesh. The structure. Those sharp lines. But I’ve been caught...

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Woman dressed as a DOMANATRIX

My  Partner  Wants  to  Explore  a  Dominance  Fantasy — What Should I Do?

My New Boyfriend Wants Me to Dress as a Dominatrix and Whip Him Abbie I’ve recently started seeing someone new, and things are going really well. He’s kind, attentive, and we have great chemistry. But recently he...

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Man wearing atockings and suspenders

My  Husband  Wears  Stockings – Is  That  Normal?

Dear Abbie, Recently my husband told me — a bit nervous but very honest — that he likes wearing stockings.He’s been experimenting with a few...

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Woman wearing black stockings and suspenders

Do  People  Notice  When  You  Wear  Stockings  in  Public?

Abbie,  I love how stockings look … but I’m terrified everyone will notice if I wear them outside the bedroom.Do people actually notice stockings in...

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Woman wearing stockings and suspenders

Take control with Stockings and Suspenders

Dear Abbie, I’m not trying to be sweet or seductive. I’ve done the matching‑set thing before — the lace, the perfume, the hopeful waiting for...

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A MAN WEARING BLACK SHEER HOLD-UPS

My Partner Thinks He Looked Better in My Hold-Ups Than I Did

Dear Abbie, This is one of those things that’s funny until it isn’t. We were getting ready for a night in. I’d had a bit...

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WOMAN WEARING DAY TO DAY HOLD-UPS

Why Hold-Ups Ladder for Cross Dressers — And How to Make Them Last

Practical advice for cross dressers on why hold-ups ladder and how to prevent it, with expert tips on dressing technique, care, and choosing the right...

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Woman wearing a pair of black stockings from DARK SECRET

Found  Stockings  in  His  Drawer — What  Do  They  Really  Mean?

Abbie I found a pair of stockings buried in my husband’s drawer that don’t belong to me. I don’t wear stockings. If they’d been new in...

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woman wearing a lingerie set designed to be quietly confident

Why Do I Feel Awkward Buying Lingerie? (You’re Not Alone)

Abbie I like lingerie. I like looking at it, I like the idea of wearing it… but when I actually go to buy it, I...

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woman wearing black hold-ups for day to day wear

Can  Hold‑Ups  Be  Everyday  Sexy?

Dear Abbie, I love the idea of hold‑ups — there’s something quietly defiant about them — but every pair I see looks designed for candlelight...

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woman wearing black stockings a

How to Attach Stockings to Suspenders Properly

Abbie I love the look of stockings and suspenders, but I never feel confident attaching them. I worry I’m doing it wrong, they’ll twist, or...

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